Connecting with your teenager and guiding them through their next chapter of life is important.

Listen Up: As a parent, show respect by letting your child know they are being heard and that you value their feelings.

Learning to Let Go: In primary school we teach children to make sound decisions, navigate social situations and learn empathy and kindness. In the teenage years we promote freedom in baby steps, and as trust is earned, the more freedom is given.

Limits are OK: Simply saying yes or no won’t cut it, but offering an explanation is an important part in communicating.

Values: Children copy what they see, so lead by example. Show gratitude, kindness and patience, and your children will follow.

Find Ways to Connect: You can build Lego with a child of eight, but driving lessons or movie trips are perhaps better ways to build a bond with your teen. The stronger the connection, the more likely you can influence them in a positive way during those teenage years.

“The most precious jewels you’ll every have around your neck are the arms of your children.”

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